January 28, 2010

Feel Test

So Ladies, you've met a new man and things seem to be going in the right direction. The conversation and dates have exceeded your expectations and the chemistry is definitely there. You're over the polite kisses and the next base is calling your name. You have to admit, you're kinda worried if it's going to be worth it though. What if it's bad? What if he doesn't match up to all the sweet nothings he's been whispering in your ear? The next few words are essential in saving you from having a bad intimate experience.

DO A FEEL TEST!

What is a feel test, you ask? It's a test to make sure you know what you're getting yourself into. You need to feel if what he's bringing to the table is a lot or not much at all. It could be right in the heat of things. Simply feel if his package is what you're comfortable with or plain unacceptable. If it's right, then by all means proceed with whatever course of action you deem appropriate or necessary. If not, you can simply pull the "Actually, Im not ready for all this yet," "We're moving too fast," or the "I need more time," card and save yourself the energy.

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